Saturday, September 1, 2007
The Need
I grew up playing a lot of hockey, being captain of both my schools when I was in Nigeria and London. The highlight of my career came when I was 10 on a wonderful warm day when we were playing an outdoor hockey game. Apparently I did some really cool skill on with the stick and the ball that everyone was like ?wow??and clapping. I didn?t really understand what I did, but nevertheless it was great and I learnt something. The entire sports department were talking about it for weeks. By the way, at that point, I went on to just shoot and watch the ball roll into the goal.
That is and will remain to be an unforgettable moment for me as everyone was congratulating me for the goal and my skillful moment. However, my attention was taken in another direction. In the stands, I saw my mum in the stands. I ran up to her, and she said, ?That goalie never had a chance.??Hearing those words, and sensing that appreciation was a real awesome feeling, and from that grew my need to be appreciation.
Needs generally come from our experiences from childhood and perhaps they are something we really wanted, and never got. All our parents certainly did the best they could and for that we are really grateful. About 95% of the human population is driven by needs, but the extent to which your particular need drives you may be the deciding factor in how successful you are.
If we relate this to the music world, from a young age, you may have never really got the opportunities you may have liked to perform and so from that grew your need to perform. When our needs are unchecked, they act as engines, driving us to behave in ways that we believe will lead to the experience of having our needs fulfilled.
When a need exists, it is either conscious or unconscious. As humans, we are the only species in this universe that are conscious that we are conscious. We are the only species that are aware that we are aware. And as a human, we are constantly striving to meet our needs. This consumes a lot of our energy and are never sated. What we need to do is really understand were our needs come from and eliminating these dynamics will transform your entire life.
My need of appreciation only made me strive to be appreciated so that I can be told that I?m good and feel good. But that doesn?t seem to last long, after a few seconds I need to feel good again. This wasn?t really making me happier, just draining a lot of energy out of me. It?s important to understand the energy we create when we have a need present in our lives. Think about when somebody rings only when they need you. How does that make you feel?
When you are coming from a place of need, this is the kind energy you are giving off and thus this is the type of energy you attract back to you. Sometimes when you think that you?re need has gone and you?re very clear about what you want to attract into your life but you still feel stuck, its probable that if you dig deep, there is still a need that has a grip on you. Without addressing the need, we will continue to create the same problem (in different forms) until we eliminate the need.
Common needs that I?ve seen are the need to be liked, the need to be heard, the need to sing, the need for security, the need to have money, etc. What are your needs? What is it that you want to do, and if you don?t you get upset? What do you strive to do, but although you get the result, it takes a lot of energy out of you? These are your needs. It is good to know them.
Most people go through life like this, really having a need and not able to live their true, free selves. You know better. Needs are easy to see and feel, yet we are usually blind to their influence on us. If you look closer, you can find that hold. A good way to identify a particular need is to consider these questions..
1.What are the patterns of problems in your life?
2.Where do you feel most stuck?
3.What causes you to get upset most?
4.Ask someone to say what they see at work within you.
By recognising and eliminating the need of appreciation, I?ve been able to create my life on purpose and in harmony with my desires instead of feeding a childhood wound.
Kavit Haria, The Musicians??Coach
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Did You Know?
Did you know that the motor companies are trying to make their products exciting again, the same way that they did in the 1960?s, they are releasing updated versions of their famous muscle cars form that time era, and it?s working for me, I love the muscle cars.
I?m a freak of sorts, when it comes to muscle cars, I think that there one of the greatest things that ever happened in the automotive industry and from the crazy prices that they are selling for, and I must not be the only muscle car crazy freak on the planet.
I loved the old ones, and I love the new ones, if it says made in the USA on it, then it?s for me, the re-release of the Challenger for 2007 is a great idea, and I thought that it was the be all and end all, ?BUT THEN??Chevrolet went and done it, first when they released the 2006 ZO6 Corvette, I just knew that I had to have one.
Then they re-released my favorite car of all times, the Camaro, and I thought that I was seeing things, you know, like when people claim to see Elvis, but my eyes didn?t fail me, the Camaro is going to return in 2009, and it will be nothing short of awesome.
With it?s pulled forward ?A Pillar??and it?s swept back ?B Pillar?? the car seems to have a very low slung and sporty looking stance, while at the same time, it retains it?s muscle car feel with the wide and short rear deck, and the interior is befit a king, it retains just enough of the 1969 Camaro body lines to be retro enough for the biggest, old Camaro freak, while using just enough of the new technology to keep things interesting.
The 2009 Camaro borrows its drive train from the Corvette, a 400 HP LS2 small block Chevy, that?s 400 HP at the rear wheels, not at the flywheel, it?s nothing to laugh at, the car will be enough for a serious performance freak, while being manageable enough to drive every day, and getting up to 30 MPG on the freeway, by use of GM?s cylinder dropping technology, which will turn off the cylinders that you don?t need while your just cruising down the freeway.
When I heard that Chevrolet was re-releasing the Camaro, I cried tears of joy, I could not believe that it was actually going to happen, but it?s such a good thing, the whole idea, the whole way that Chevrolet conceived and built the concept for it, was pure genius and nothing short of modern art.
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Digital Sports Photography - Top-Scoring Shots With Expert Coaching
A digital sports photography article would have been fairly brief as recently as a couple of years ago. In essence, it would have stated that digital cameras have unacceptable shutter lag, and cannot yet achieve the frame rates of their film cousins. End of story.
Well, that particular story has in fact ended. These days the focus is on digital cameras finally reaching the level of film cameras, and being widely used with great effect in digital sports photography. The aim nowadays is to point out the clear benefits offered by the digital route.
In fact, a number of excellent books have appeared on digital sports photography, confirming that this type of photography has finally become an acceptable mainstream digital activity.
In 'Digital Sports Photography', G. Newman Lowrance offers a wealth of information on the techniques and equipment you will need for successful digital sports photography - either as an aspiring professional, or taking shots at the local basketball game.
Lowrance has many years' experience of digital sports photography, and his pictures have been widely published in Official Super Bowl and Pro Bowl game magazines, NFL videos and calendars, NFL Insider Magazine, and elsewhere.
He doesn't hold back, and gives you a lot of information from some excellent sports photographers and editors. Issues such as color management, camera setup, and equipment options are covered. You will discover all the ins and outs of the unique techniques applied to shooting for baseball, football, basketball, ice hockey, soccer, and tennis.
Lowrance also uses his own experiences in digital sports photography, and gives true, autobiographical examples of how to get started and how to succeed as a professional.
His book features many eye-catching sports action photographs that will generate excitement and inspiration. The informative content will motivate you to become familiar with new aspects of the technology, stimulating a keen interest and involvement in this aspect of photography.
In short, 'Digital Sports Photography' will give you the help and guidance you need to make your photos stand out from the crowd!
Another book that illustrates how far digital sports photography has come, is 'Digital Sports Photography: Take Winning Shots Every Time', by Serge Timacheff and David Karlins.
This book helps you to take great shots by overcoming obstacles like rain and crowds, bad lighting, fast-moving athletes, flash limitations, and other challenges.
The authors give advice on how to shoot a wide range of sports: extreme, outdoor, indoor, competitive, recreational, and more. The book provides many full-color examples illustrating professional tips and techniques, and shows how to tackle skilled digital sports photography with any kind of digital camera, from point-and-shoot to SLR.
And the bottom line for many aspiring digital sports photographers is that this book will also teach you how to actually sell your images!
One of the advantages of digital sports photography highlighted, is that once you have the equipment, including enough batteries and memory cards, it doesn't cost anything to snap away at that baseball game...
For more information visit Best-Digital-Photography.com
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When Was the Last Time We Bought a Special Gift for Our Mothers?
Yes, like I said, when was the last time we bought something creative, unique and totally special for our mothers to show them that we love and remember them? When was the last time we got them a special gift to tell them that their sacrifice for us is appreciated? Motherhood is an extremely special experience and it?s an experience that no man will ever be able to experience. Regardless of how we were raised and how our mothers nagged us when we were younger, the sacrifice cannot compare to any other types of sacrifices we?ve made in our lives ??rivaled only by OUR sacrifice for our children. Only when we become mothers ourselves will we be able to understand the true magnitude of motherhood.
A special gift says a lot
Forget about the conventional, off-the-shelves books, picture frames, calendars, organizers, flowers, vases and what-have-you-nots. Your mom won?t say they?re not special and will take the gift with a smile and a big thank you (and a hug) but they?re not really the kind of special gift that they, your mothers, will thank you, remember and cherish for a long time to come.
The pure convenience of the purchase speaks for itself. It?s nothing special.
So, what?s a special and unique gift?
A truly special gift is something that your mother will look back 5 or maybe 10 years down the road and smile to herself, her heart with burst and her face will beam with pride. The sacrifice, the love and the commitment was worth it, she?d think to herself. As she watches you ?mother??around your own children, she will think it was all worth it because she did the right thing.
A special gift should be something that reminds her of you, of motherhood.
Some ideas of a special gift you can get for your mom
??A motherhood-related product ??this could be something related to motherhood, with a simple but meaningful quote to remind her of her motherhood years.
??Something you?ve designed or created
??A custom-made special gift designed especially for her
??Something you and your own children have come up with over the weekend or something you?ve worked on for a long time, like a scrapbook or a decorative doll
??A poem you?ve written
??A special home-made CD (maybe a special CD) of a vacation with you and your family in it
To find the right special gift for your mother, start with your mother?s personality. What does she like? What kind of memories does she have of raising her children? What are her hobbies and interests?
And once you?ve put your finger on what interests her, finding the right kind of special gift for you should be easy enough.
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